Obsessive Thinking in Codependency and addiction recovery You may find you spend hours each day, or lie awake at night, worrying about your situation.  This may take the form of fantasies in which drinking becomes physically impossible for the alcoholic, or you may scheme about techniques to avoid drinking situations.  Or you may rehearse your lecture to the addict.  You may torture yourself worrying where that person is, and with whom. You are afraid the addict will get killed on the…